Are Children in the Middle Required in Iowa? Rules and Waivers

If you are a parent in an Iowa court case involving custody or visitation, you are required to complete the Children in the Middle course in Iowa within 45 days of being served with the petition. The rule comes from Iowa Code Section 598.15, and it applies to both parents independently. Your divorce, custody, or visitation case cannot be finalized until each parent files a certificate of completion with the court.1Iowa Legislature. Iowa Code 598.15 – Mandatory Course, Parties to Certain Proceedings

Who Has to Take It

Both parties in any Iowa action involving child custody or visitation must complete the course. That covers dissolution of marriage, separate maintenance, and paternity proceedings where custody or visitation is at issue. Iowa Code Section 600B.40 extends the requirement to paternity cases.2Iowa Legislature. Iowa Code 600B.40 – Custody and Visitation Contested or uncontested makes no difference. Both the petitioner and the respondent have to complete a certified course on their own.

The 45-day clock starts when the petition and notice are served. If you are involved in a modification of an existing custody or visitation order, the same 45-day deadline runs from the date you are served with the modification application.1Iowa Legislature. Iowa Code 598.15 – Mandatory Course, Parties to Certain Proceedings Parents in modification cases sometimes assume the course was a one-time obligation from their original divorce. It is not.

What the Course Covers

Each judicial district certifies its own list of approved providers, but every course must cover the same minimum topics. The curriculum addresses how divorce affects children and family relationships, parenting skills for divorcing parents, children’s needs and coping techniques, and the financial responsibilities parents carry after divorce.1Iowa Legislature. Iowa Code 598.15 – Mandatory Course, Parties to Certain Proceedings

Providers generally organize the material around how children at different ages process a family breakup, communication between co-parents, ways to keep adult conflict away from the kids, and practical logistics like building a parenting plan and managing transitions between homes.3Iowa State University Extension and Outreach. Co-Parenting for Resilience

Finding an Approved Provider

Start by confirming which providers your judicial district accepts. Some district courts post approved provider lists on the Iowa Judicial Branch website. The Fifth Judicial District, for example, publishes a downloadable PDF listing recognized in-person and online programs.4Iowa Judicial Branch. District 5 Family Law Mediation If your district’s list is not online, contact the clerk of court at your county courthouse or ask your attorney.

Both in-person and online options are available statewide. Online formats range from self-paced courses to live webinars at set times. At least one provider offers the course in Spanish. Costs generally fall between $40 and $65 per person, and each party pays for their own course.1Iowa Legislature. Iowa Code 598.15 – Mandatory Course, Parties to Certain Proceedings If cost is a barrier, ask the provider about reduced fees or contact your local legal aid office.

Waivers and Exceptions

The court can waive or delay the course requirement for good cause. The statute names two examples: when one party has defaulted (never responded to the case), and when both parties have already completed a court-approved course or its equivalent in a prior proceeding.1Iowa Legislature. Iowa Code 598.15 – Mandatory Course, Parties to Certain Proceedings Those are examples, not the full list, so a judge has discretion to grant a waiver in other circumstances.

The course does not apply at all to proceedings involving the termination of parental rights.1Iowa Legislature. Iowa Code 598.15 – Mandatory Course, Parties to Certain Proceedings Even when a waiver is granted, the court can still order that you receive the course information in an alternative format, so a waiver may not mean skipping the material entirely.

Filing Your Certificate

When you finish, the provider issues a certificate of completion. Most providers email it within 48 hours, though some hand it over immediately after an in-person session. Save a digital copy before you file anything.

You must submit the certificate to the court before the judge can grant a final decree or enter a final order.1Iowa Legislature. Iowa Code 598.15 – Mandatory Course, Parties to Certain Proceedings Iowa requires electronic filing. Log into the Iowa Judicial Branch eFile portal, locate your case number, and upload the certificate as a new document. If eFiling creates a genuine hardship, ask the clerk of court for an exemption form; if it is granted, you can file the certificate in paper form with a cover sheet listing your case name and number.5Iowa Judicial Branch. Electronic Filing Once processed, the electronic docket will show that you have satisfied the requirement, and you can check the online court record to confirm.

What Happens If You Miss the Deadline

The court will not finalize your case. No final decree of divorce, no final order on custody or visitation, until both parties have complied or received a waiver.1Iowa Legislature. Iowa Code 598.15 – Mandatory Course, Parties to Certain Proceedings The entire case stalls. Even if you and your spouse have signed a full settlement and are ready to move on, the judge cannot sign off until both certificates are on file. Treating the 45-day deadline as a suggestion is one of the most common ways parents delay their own cases.